A room for honest questions

A monthly live conversation

Ask Phetso

One theme. Your questions. An honest conversation.

Tuesday, 6 October 20267:00 PM CATLive on Zoom

“When You Know You're Capable, But You Still Doubt Yourself.”

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The format

What is Ask Phetso?

Once a month, Phetso opens a live conversation on Zoom built around a single, carefully chosen theme. No slides, no pitch. Just one hour of thinking out loud together.

Before the session, participants send in the questions they are genuinely sitting with. Phetso reads them all, notices the patterns, and responds to a selection live, weaving individual questions into the shared ones so the conversation belongs to everyone in the room.

It's less a webinar and more a considered conversation you happen to be invited into.

October 2026 · This month’s conversation

“When You Know You're Capable, But You Still Doubt Yourself.”

This month we sit with a quiet contradiction many capable people carry: the evidence says you can, and yet the doubt stays. We'll explore confidence, leadership, visibility, decisions, career moves, finding your voice, and what it really takes to back yourself.

  • Confidence
  • Leadership
  • Visibility
  • Decisions
  • Career moves
  • Finding your voice
  • Backing yourself

How it works

Three simple steps

  1. 01

    Reserve your seat

    Add your name, email and country. Seats are limited to keep the conversation intimate.

  2. 02

    Submit one question

    If question spots remain, share the one thing you're genuinely wondering about this month's theme — now, or later through your private link, up to 48 hours before the session.

  3. 03

    Join Phetso live

    Come to Zoom, settle in, and listen as the conversation unfolds around the questions in the room.

Submitting a question doesn't guarantee an individual answer. Phetso may group similar questions and speak to the shared themes during the session.

What to expect live

Present, unhurried, and yours

Ask Phetso is designed to be experienced live. Sessions are not recorded, and no replay will be available — that's part of what makes the room feel honest.

  • 60–75 minutes

    Enough time to go somewhere real, without overstaying.

  • Pre-submitted questions lead

    The conversation is built mostly around the questions sent in beforehand.

  • Read anonymously

    Questions are read without names. Your details are never shown to other attendees.

  • Grouped where they overlap

    Phetso may bring similar questions together and speak to the shared thread.

  • Live questions, if time allows

    The final 10–15 minutes may open for questions from the room.

  • Cameras optional

    Come as you are. Camera on or off is entirely your choice.

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Your host

Phetso Ntsowe

Self-Trust Leadership Strategist · Everything DiSC® Authorized Associate · International Speaker · Certified Coach

Phetso works with leaders and teams on the quiet, decisive skill underneath every other one: trusting yourself. Ask Phetso is her open door, a place to bring the real question, not the polished one.

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